You make it look so easy. I've tried it that way several times, I just cant do it. My balls are too big. If they don't go through first, they're not going through. With my smaller ring (1 3/4" - 45 mm?) I'm lucky to get the balls through at all. Then I have to be small to get my cock through. With my bigger rings (2") I can get the balls through easily and can still get my cock in even if it's starting to get hard.